Tuesday, March 31, 2009

PHOTOGRAPHY DAY!!! LOTS OF LOVE AND SMILES....BUT THE REAL KIND...

So the trip to C-bus was a huge success...for us anyway. My daughter Emily and her family suffered greatly. They contracted a stomach virus and missed the blessing...and the family photo...that SHE ordered and orchestrated...at the Jeffrey Mansion in Bexley, but it went off without a hitch...inlaws and outlaws and the whole shebang....everywhere I turned I saw faces that I loved...laughter that rang out like music...it was heaven on earth for me during that brief time...the sun was just rising over the roof of that grand old house and the photographers captured it beautifully. I snapped some candids just to try to capture the randomness and the chaos of the day that translated into sheer joy for me...I guess you'd have to be a mother whose chicks have grown and flown to appreciate how fun it is when they all come together...so thank you Emily, for arranging this, honey....it was inspired and the fruits of it will live forever...and you'll get photoshopped in.... :)




















CHARLIE AND OLIVIA HAVE A CHAT....

So, Charlie, I'm concerned...why are BOTH of our Grammies in the same room? That NEVER happens...
Yea Liv, I know...You keep your eyes on Moo, I've got a bean on Grammie Bjorkie. Let's just keep talking...
Good Lord! Are they LAUGHING???

Liv! Be cool!! Like me...

But Charlie, are they friends? Do you know what this means Charlie? If they combine their powers for good, we'll never defeat them!!! The whole point of our coming here together was our ability to out-cute everything in our path...I'm certain we can take Mom and Dad, but LOOK at the Grammies!!!

I know Liv...I'm thinking...look, Moo doesn't live here, that's our strength...these two are NEVER together...we need to be sure to operate from that point of strength...divide and conquer!

You sound like Dad.

Yea, I'm picking up on that...he can't fool me with that "Moogie" stuff....he's got brain cells in there...
Liv, I need to you do something for me...

What Charlie?

I think you might be too cute.

What? How can I be too cute?

Well, it's those chubby cheeks and that crooked smile and everything. Maybe if you were less engaging and crabbier-maybe that way we could strategize our way in between the Grammies, just in case they're together more often. You know...as a back up...


Psst...Charlie....I think you just want to look good and you're maybe throwin' me under the bus....could that be the case....huh?....moogie boy???
Ahhhh....that feels better...oh sorry Liv....did I chill lax on your face?.....

OH NO!!! THERE THEY ARE!!! THE GRAMMIES!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

My dog...loyal, patient, long-suffering....with (maybe) some issues...


I love my dogs, but even I have limits...olfactory limits...and I'm speaking to you Snoopy..

I've got your back old buddy...you follow me around like gays at a Madonna concert...you wait for me outside of every closed door I'm behind...you sleep on the floor next to me at night...you wag your tail when I smile at you...I count you as one of my best friends....few people on the planet experience the loyalty that I have with you...I love you old friend...always and forever....

But please...if I smell one more fart, my face will melt....

Sorry, Dude.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

TEXTING WITH ERIC...IT'S LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATES....


My son, Eric, recently got a phone so he can text once again. He is a mad texting machine. He texts all the time. It's crazy. I love it. He is a random and creative guy, as is his brudder, so there's no telling what I'll be reading on my phone, or where the conversation will go...it's great... Oftentimes the conversation will start out completely normal by any one's standards and then just turn...JUST TURN...and all of a sudden, it appears as though I'M THE ONE WITH A PROBLEM....it's maddening...and funny...all at the same time...so I thought I would post one for remembery sake.... This is a "typical" conversation that I received last night while writing a homework paper....yea...

ERIC: I'm jamming out with Jamie and her husband. I love this.

MOM (me): Very cool.

ERIC: It IS vurry cool. I am loving life right now, Mom. I really am.

MOM: All because you have what you need? Or is it something else?

ERIC: Love, I think. Success, maybe.

MOM: That's nice.

ERIC: Life is good. We're budgeting and still have money. It's weird to have extra.

MOM: Actually, I've heard that's normal. :)

ERIC: I like normal...

MOM: Normal's good.

ERIC: There's a saying...it goes: don't hate, appreciate! That's what you need to do.

MOM: It's difficult.

ERIC: Just do it, Mom.

MOM: Bite me, honey.

SOL DISTRICT...SHOUT OUT TO THE BOYZ!!!!


http://www.desertentertainer.com/
The above link did a nice interview with my step-son, Peter Leighton, Jr, the drummer of the band, (he's in the center of the photo). If you go to the site, click on "entertainment" and then type "sol district" in the search window, a print interview conducted by Johnny Meza will appear. It was nicely done and Peter handled himself well. We're very proud of him. He's a nice young man who has matured nicely. He has his dad's work ethic, his mom's family's music chops and his own identity to make it all come together. We love the time we get to spend with him. He does some wonderful artwork on top of it all. His original drawings have appeared on T-shirts, as well as hanging on our refrigerator...don't get me started on the caricatures....

The music is great. There is this feel that it's moving forward...that you're in a fast moving vehicle speeding along...that's the visual image I attach to it....very trippy....

Any chance we have to get to a gig is a blast...always...The last time we went to one was locally and they actually pulled out an old ELO song from the 70s...and I think I was the only one in the entire venue that knew it...yeesh....but I saw that boy smile when I whooped it up on that familiar guitar riff....he and the bassist Robbie....

So break a leg SolDistrict...these boys rock....remember them.....


This is one of Peter Jr's little pencil drawings that he sketched in a couple of minutes. It just kills me....

Monday, March 23, 2009

ME AND THE HUBS VISIT ANZA-BORREGA & JULIAN...SHEER HEAVEN...

These are kinda sorta in reverse order because I STILL haven't figgered out my blog's way of configuring pictures...it's only been a little over 300 posts...give me some time eh?...Anyway, the hubs and I took a road trip to Anza-Borrega State Park and to Julian (a little mountain community) on Saturday. AB State Park is a beautiful desert known for its wild flowers in the Spring. We were about one weekend too late, but that didn't stop us...intrepid day trippers that we are. We hopped in his trusty truck and headed down Route 86 past the Salton Sea and we were on our way. The above picture is of my favorite cactus, which is an ocotillo (pronounced oko-tee-yo). It's a profusion of long, spiny sticks that look as though a firework has been caught frozen at the point of explosion. I love them. This weekend, we caught them in bloom. Their blossoms are bright orange and explode at the tips of the branches. Here, the sun light was sneaking between the branches...a tip I learned from the Dear Sweet One....thx Abby.
This is Peter waiting for me down by the truck. I love the pops of red...his shirt, the ladder, even the tail lights....What he was SAYING was, "I don't think you're going to find any barrel cactus up there"....but look at his body language...what he was THINKING, and later confirmed, was this, "How in the heck are you going to get DOWN from that height with your bad leg!?!"....and he was correct in being concerned....but I did it....
I love the color of red when it appears in nature....in the Midwest, you typically have to wait until the Fall to see the color red in great quantities, but here in the desert, we get it in the spring, as much as we're going to, anyway....so I snapped this little shrub...
This is desert sage. It blossoms this time of year. The blossoms are bright yellow and charming as all get out. They blossom a couple of inches above the actual plant so from a distance, they actually hover over the sage on rather invisible little stalks. After the sage dies out, it disconnects from the stalk, loses all of its greenery, and tumbles away....that's right....this is a tumbleweed in its embryonic form...whodda thunk they used to be so pretty and vibrant, right? Yep, this is a dying joke ready to happen....my kids will get that.....

Peter snapped this as I was wandering aimlessly looking for a place to take a picture. He said, "That's it, I took five, let's go".....okay......
Detail of the orange blossoms of the above mentioned ocotillo....
Prickly Pear cactus...these are edible and delicious.....
I loved the way the light was captured around the spines of this little cactus....the sun light seemed to linger around them...

Ditto on this particular cactus. Beautiful...especially with the green grass around it...so rare and fleeting...I suppose that's part of the beauty of this scene for us...we know that in a matter of perhaps days, this will be brown and back to the typical desert typography that we know, and typically love, so this fertile, green look is so unusual and beautiful to us, we had to experience it.
The beautiful ocotillo's typical fan shape...
Detail of the ocotillo branches reaching toward the blue sky....isn't that amazing???
Here is a carpet of wild, yellow flowers, a border of ocotillo and a backdrop of mountains bordered by the blue sky...I couldn't resist snapping it....
For you litch-a-chure buffs...

I have a fierce confession...one of my single most favorite things on the planet is my husband's face. And this is another truth: I absolutely hate...after five and half years of marriage...to turn the lights off at night...because I adore looking at it...I love that mug....so I have great fun playing with it after I snap a picture of it...I love editing and tweaking with my limited skills (and software), but this is the "after" picture of the one I took below. The hubs has a great face. He could be from the 40s or earlier....I have often wondered if he wasn't born a couple or more decades too late anyway...

This is while we were in Julian..duh, thanks Deb...it's a little "apple community"...that's what they grow there and and that's what they market...all things apple....I like that sign 'cause it reminds me of the hubs and I..."nuts and honey"....he's nuts and I'm honey....well, it made sense in my head when I snapped the picture....
This is where we go to get our favorite candy...we call it "bird bones" because that's the sound it makes when you chew on it...don't ask....Peter came up with it....

So...it's now Monday and back to the typical grind...Day trips are fun and nourishing and good for the soul. We were jazzed for Church on Sunday and had a great dinner with his daughter and her family last evening...all in all, a great weekend filled with love, nature, good food, great family, and all things wonderful....hope you had the same.... :)

Friday, March 20, 2009

THAT ACCIDENT ON 79 SOUTH ON FRIDAY, MARCH 20, 2009...GOODNESS AMONG SUFFERING

I’m writing this post because my heart is full to bursting...again....it happens a lot lately.

My daughter called me to tell me that she, in addition to preparing her family and home for a brief vacation to visit loved ones in Ohio, needed me because she had developed shingles...on her face...and they were headed towards her eyes...and could I come out NOW....

My soul went into frantic mode. Of COURSE I can come out now! The entire way out there my prayers went up to Heavenly Father...”oh please, don’t let this young woman suffer....please please please, if there is any way, let me take this from her...give them to me, I’ll do it for her...I’ll take the shingles, the swelling, the pain... I’ll take the anxiety, the stress, the worry...whatever it takes, let me just TAKE it”...the thought of her, or any of my kids, suffering like that, just breaks me apart...and then the image of another Parent’s beloved Child suffering, even greater, entered my mind and I broke apart again because I knew that His suffering was for all of us and how THAT Parent, the greatest of us all, must have broken apart to watch that Child...goodness among the suffering....

And then my car slowed down because of an accident...a BIG accident...on 79 South just after the 371 turn off...people that were passing us on the other side were telling us to turn around because it was a “several hours delay”...I couldn’t turn around because there was no where to turn around to...my destination was ahead and I had no idea where to go if I turned around...so I just turned my car off and planned to sit for awhile. No such luck. The accident was so bad, so very very bad, that all vehicles were being turned away. No more waiting. The road was closed. One at a time, as we drove forward, there was a man that was giving us directions on where to go as we turned around on this long, two lane highway to...well, virtually no where, as far as I was concerned. As it got to my turn with the man, I noticed that he wasn’t wearing an “official” emergency uniform. In fact, he was wearing typical blue “Dickies” pants and a striped blue and white work shirt for the company he worked for. I also noticed a hay truck parked off to the side of the road. These are things I noticed unconsciously at the time (I was very self-centered at those moments) and I’m recalling them in hindsight. This gentleman was probably the driver of that hay truck. He was, no doubt, called into the role of direction-giver because he drove that route (those twisty, turny, switch backs and rural back roads) quite a bit, on a regular basis even, and he knew it like the back of his rough, work weary hand. The skin on his face was used to being outside. He changed posture quite a bit between vehicles (bending forward, holding his hands on his knees, moving side to side) as if he was attempting to find relief or comfort some how. Maybe his back hurt from bending over and speaking into car windows a hundred times? All I know is that this kind-hearted gentleman was (possibly) losing money by not driving his route and taking the time to redirect people to find their way home...or to where ever they were going. He was needed...called to action and willing to serve...and I forgot to thank him...totally forgot...so I’m doing it now...just like all the times that my husband has been willing to serve and didn’t expect to be thanked...and was way okay with that...good men and women...goodness among the suffering.

Like my daughter-in-law’s mother who takes such good care of The Dear Sweet One and the twins...always and forever...especially when Abby went back in for carpal tunnel surgery and the poignant post Nancy wrote about it...broke my heart....goodness among the suffering....

All the acts of service that are rendered anonymously in times of needs...goodness among the suffering....

These are the things I see more and more as I get older...maybe I choose to see them now instead of the pain...maybe that comes with life experience...I don’t know...I just know I’m grateful for it....

So...I made it here to my daughter’s home. One of the kids is at preschool...the other is napping...the house is cleaned and my daughter is resting on the couch...sleeping all cuddled up and looking beautiful....the nerves of her eyes don’t appear to be in line with the shingles (Thank you God). The only sound is the dish washer running and me sniffling from my tears as I pray to a Heavenly Father who loves her and blesses her and watches over her and hers....goodness among the suffering...

I still want her shingles though.....

Thursday, March 19, 2009

JUST A COUPLE OF THOUGHTS ABOUT THE BOY....






He's 17. Yea....I know...

He's cute. Yea....I know...

He's funny. Yea...don't get me started on how irritating that can be AND how often it has saved his neck! (I'll take a wee-tee tiny credit on this..he and I use to come up with "Satan's Home Evenings" and how totally reversed they would be from ours, for instance "cigar smoking instruction" or "how to roll a joint" followed by the treat "jello shots" or "scotch-straight up"....yea...he was like, 11 at the time...the point was to show how warped Satan is and how righteous WE are...his Dad really didn't get it...looking back, maybe it was a little weird....)

He's a tad lazy. Yea...it goes with the age (I hope....yeesh, I hope he outgrows THAT).

He's kind. An older lady at church last night told me he came up to her at a car wash and made the effort to say hello to her. He didn't have to do that. He's seen his dad do that about a million times...he's had a good role model....the BEST, actually!

He just received his patriarchal blessing. Yea...we've got someone quite special in our midst with a big future, like all our youth...noble, bright, "a beacon on a hill"...He can make me cry and laugh, all in five minutes...

My kids love him...they LOVE him...they saw his talents, maybe even before I did...My children and their spouses are the most loving-est and accepting lot I've ever had the pleasure of knowing...Eli is a lucky and blessed kid to have married into this family of siblings...but they would tell you that THEY are the lucky and blessed ones...ain't that grand?....ain't that a win/win if ever there was one?....

He's 17. Yea....I know...